What Men Find Attractive In Women

Irresistible Woman! What Men Find Attractive in Women

In Dating Advice for Women by Interconnected Lives

#4: How To Make A Man Attracted To You  

Do you feel you “wander lonely as a cloud?”

Or like you’re “On your own, like a complete unknown, with no direction home, like a rolling stone?”

Well, there are two likely causes—either you’re the biggest William Wordsworth and Bob Dylan fans in the world, and have internalized all that lyrical poetry, or else you’re lacking direction.  To be clear, we’re NOT saying that getting into a relationship with men is a direction for your life, or that you should stop whatever you plan on doing and pursue that instead.

That’s not true at all.  Rather, we’re simply observing that having direction and structure and being able to tell someone—male or female—what your goals are, what you want out of life, THAT’S the way to come across as attractive.

Wandering aimlessly, you risk being seen as unfocused, or a flake.  With goals set and accomplishments under your belt, you appear—and are—accomplished, and ready to take control of another situation (which might just so happen to take the form of romance.)