So you’ve been seeing each other for a long time now, you love each other greatly, you’re obviously perfect for one another, you can’t help but get a little excited and giddy at even the thought of—oh G-d, you’re ready, where are those tell-tell signs he’s ready to marry you already?!
Take a deep breath. It’ll be fine. You’re in all likelihood about to have your whole lives together ahead of you, so take this opportunity to enjoy these last few moments of pre-marital life. Trust us—even in the happiest marriages, there are going to be days where you flash back to this time wistfully, so live your life and make the most of it…
For a while, at least. When those last few moments start becoming weeks and months of waiting, however, it can be pretty hard not to start getting antsy and wonder what and where those signs he’s ready to marry you are, and if you’ve missed them or not.
First of all, don’t worry about ‘missing’ the signs. Not only is that relatively unlikely given how closely you’re watching for them, but even if your over-analyzing everything does lead you to miss an obvious clue or two, it’s not as if it’s a one-and-done deal.
If he really loves you, he’ll keep dropping hints…and eventually drop to one knee and propose in proper, and THAT’S a sign that’s pretty hard to miss!