#9: Avoid Talking Behind His Back
When a marriage is going through a rough patch, many women take to talking behind their husband’s backs with their friends and family members.
While a friend or a family member has one’s best interest in mind, they don’t always offer the most objective marriage advice for women. Their advice is highly biased in the wife’s favor because she is the one they care about.
They see things from her perspective and offer advice based on what is best for the wife, not the relationship (and as mentioned earlier, no relationship is complete without sacrifices and compromises).
If advice is needed, see a marriage counselor because he/she is legally bound to keep information secret. Don’t talk behind your husband’s back with friends and family because you might have to face too many problems.