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Living Together Before Marriage: 10 Questions to Ask Before Moving In

In Relationship Advice, Relationship Advice for Men, Relationship Advice for Women by Interconnected Lives

#7: Where Are You Going To Stay?

While you may want him to move in to your apartment, he may want you to move in to his apartment.

Well, no matter where you decide to stay, it’s recommended that you find a new place to live with each other because it puts both of you on equal levels.

Since both of you will have to work from scratch and work towards your future with a new place, it will help you develop your relationship together.


#8: How Are You Going To Handle Any Kind Of Conflict?

living together before marriage 3 living together before marriage Living Together Before Marriage: 10 Questions to Ask Before Moving In living together before marriage 3It’s probably easy to carry on dating when compared to a live-in relationship because you’re bound to face several conflicts.

Unless you’re the perfect couple who never, ever fights (which is highly unlikely because, after all, we’re all humans!), you might want to think about how to handle conflicts whenever they arise.

It could be something as simple as him spending more money than you’re comfortable with or anything else, but no matter what, remember that you’ll be living with someone every minute and it’s not to be compared with your dating days.

It’s easy to think that you really know a person because you’ve dated him for several years, but hey, when you move in together, things do change.

So, think and discuss about how you’re going to resolve conflicts and make sure that you handle things maturely. No matter what happens, yelling or screaming won’t really solve any issues.