#5: Use Your Eyes
Lesbian women have the unique ability to judge a woman simply by staring deeply into her eyes. You can use this to your advantage when out on a date with your dream girl. Your eye contact can deepen the connection between the two of you.
To properly use eye contact to seduce that perfect girl you first need to smile with your eyes. You will not be able to fake this.
If you are generally interested in someone, your eyes will be smiling when you gaze into theirs.
Next, use your eyes to let her know you are paying attention to her. Use your eyes to let her know you are listen and can relate to her story. Then as the date progresses, use your eyes to captivate her.
Hold your eye contact a little longer. This shows your girl you are into here. Attraction creates attraction…
#6: Unique First Date
Lastly, if all else fails doing something different is better than something mundane.
The lesbian dating scene can be exhilarating, but it can also be exhausting.
By changing up your date and doing something new and exciting, you create a better date for the both of you.
Try going to a wine tasting at a local vineyard instead of grabbing drinks at the bar.
If you have a hobby, share that with your girl. Maybe you love hot yoga. Take your dream girl to a class and then out to coffee. Switch things up and you’ll be happy you did!
Going on a first date is tough, especially when you first come out as a lesbian. Use the tips above to make sure you have an amazing time with your new girl on that lesbian first date!