When I sat down to think about interracial dating advice, I was torn. Here I am a white person, trying to tip-toe on the lines of race and love and dating.
The thing is, race, is a social construct that was created to separate the ‘them’ from the ‘us.’ Regardless of where in the world you are, there’s a separation. And it sucks.
So, what do we do about falling in love with someone of a different race?
What do you do if you fall in love with a person that has curly hair instead of straight?
Or that has crooked teeth?
Or brown hair and your family has blonde? You love them.
Plain and simple, you love them. No one else has to be a part of the relationship but the two of you.
However, there will always be people that will try to separate, disseminate and break you down, but you can rise above the negativity.
No one wants to be singled out because of a feature, and as politically correct we try to be, we fail.
Here are a 4 scenarios and interracial dating advice that may help you to navigate the already complicated world of dating, adding in the interracial tensions of others…