#4: Getting Back Together
You are probably feeling eager to jump right back into things with your ex but it is crucial that you take things casually and slowly because you have to prove to her that you have made the necessary changes to make her – and yourself happy.
So get together for lunch at a casual restaurant or enjoy an afternoon coffee break. Avoid making plans late in the evening or doing something too fancy as it can appear needy and not sincere.
However, to ensure that your ex-girlfriend still gets the message that you want to work towards getting back together, sharpen up on the how to flirt tips, and hopefully, being fun, flirty and easy going will remind her of the guy she still loves, and not the guy she broke up with. Now, although seeing each other for the first time post-breakup can be overwhelming, try to keep your cool. Casual is key. Don’t get too eager.
If all goes well, you can continue having casual meet ups more frequently, which certainly means that she too is entertaining the idea of getting back together. She is just ‘testing the waters’ before diving in, so be sure that you’re ready to commit to this changed version of yourself and that it isn’t just a temporary façade to get her back.