#2: Why She Left You
Once you have determined that you want your ex-girlfriend back for more reasons than to just end the heartache you’re experiencing, you need to take some time to think about what went wrong in your relationship that ultimately caused it to end.
Your ex-girlfriend is not going to even consider taking you back if you have absolutely no clue as to why she broke up with you in the first place.
So think long and hard about what your girlfriend was saying to you before the breakup happened, what were the signs (if any), what were her reasons and more importantly, once you have figured out the answers to these questions, you must be willing to work towards being the man that she wants.
For example, she may have mentioned how you don’t give her enough attention, so make an effort to put the iPhone down and limit the time that you spend playing video games.
However, if she wants you to be something that you are not, maybe the two of you just aren’t meant to be because you should never change whom you are just to make someone else happy.