#1: Find Yourself
The very first step on how to get your ex-girlfriend back is to figure things out. Breakups can be emotionally draining and it is completely natural to want your ex back because your routine has suddenly been interrupted.
Take some time to focus on yourself and enjoy it. Be single and take advantage of being able to do what you want when you want. Go to the gym, have a rowdy guys night, get a new style, make new friends – do it all because they will allow you to re-establish your self worth and confidence that is definitely needed post breakup.
If you’re having a great time, enjoying being single but still find yourself wanting to snag your ex’s heart back, then you may have just figured out that it isn’t just the heartbreak talking and moving onto the next steps is all you need to know to get her back.