How to Find a Boyfriend

How to Find a Boyfriend! I Want to Find Love

In Dating Advice for Women by Interconnected Lives

#3: How to Find Love

If, on the other hand, you come across as being vapid, hollow, and not having anything of interest to offer yourself, you’ll have a hard time getting anyone to date you, let alone go steady.

So, before you can worry about how to find a boyfriend, you need to be sure that you have something to offer.  A common—and insultingly sexist—insinuation many how to get a boy to like you -style articles like is presume that ‘something to offer’ must be something physical, as if there were nothing else of value women have to offer.

And you do.

Wit, brilliance, tenacity, tenderness…

A talent for art, singing, music, sports…

A passion for poetry, pets, politics—

Have something to offer, something that makes you distinct and sets you apart, and you have the most precious asset anyone could ever wish for.  Oh, and it’ll drive men mad, and keep them coming back for more once the relationship begins.