How to Find a Boyfriend

How to Find a Boyfriend! I Want to Find Love

In Dating Advice for Women by Interconnected Lives

#1: I Want A Boyfriend?

Before you start wondering about how to get a boy to like you, you might well ask yourself what YOU’D like in a relationship.

Having a boyfriend or girlfriend is a bit like signing a lease or putting up the down payment for a brand new car—just the sensation of ‘getting’ something might feel good in the moment, but if you’re not absolutely sure that this is what you want, you could be stuck with a nasty case of buyer’s remorse, and end up paying for it for years to come.

The world of literature is filled with such remorse, with everything from Madame Bovary and Dombey and Son to cheap romance novels today all focusing on what can come from not knowing what you want—or marrying despite that.

As such, before considering how to get a boyfriend, think long and hard about the qualities you’d like him to have.