#7: Healing Relationships
Most of us carry our baggage from the past. Doing so will only affect the present relationship; however, sometimes it’s hard to let go of the past. Having said that, don’t expect your partner to completely understand your feelings and heal you.
It’s not possible for him/her to read everything that’s going on in your mind and expecting your partner to do so is not only unfair but it’s also impractical.
Again, this means that even you shouldn’t try to fill in their emotional holes because it could create friction.
If your partner wants you to do so, then that’s fine but most often, people want to deal with their emotional baggage themselves.