‘You want me to do what?’ ‘Where do you want to put that?’ The thought of OMG crosses your mind when your boyfriend suggests dirty sex, getting a little too kinky for your liking.
“Is sex dirty? Only when it’s being done right.”
“Love is the answer, but while you are waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty good questions.”
― Woody Allen
You thought that your sex life was going just great and it was already exciting after all you had finally ventured away from the same old missionary position.
You begin to question whether your partner’s happy with you sexually and now you’re left feeling a bit confused and dazed.
Should I or shouldn’t I? Good question. But first things first, you should never feel pressured into doing anything you’re not comfortable doing sexually.
But how do you tell your partner that? “Will he dump me if I don’t?”
There’s no guarantee that he won’t end the relationship ever, but if they do on the basis of not getting a little bit freakier in bed than normal, it was never meant to be in the first place and you’re better off without them.
There are a few different ways of dealing with this situation should it arise, but at all times remember your body belongs to you and only you.